2021 Winter HORIZONS | 15
safe and legal abortion care at a time when I
was grossly unprepared to nurture a healthy
pregnancy or become a parent. I trusted my
decision implicitly.
And because of my lived experience, by
extension, I trust ALL women implicitly to
make the best reproductive healthcare
choices for themselves, whatever those
choices may be. I believe in their
sovereignty over their own bodies.
Something I cannot say for the — I’m sorry,
but this is accurate — the
overwhelmingly male Texas
ofcials who authored,
voted for and signed SB
8. How many girls and
women in Texas have been
denied their sovereignty
and deprived of their
constitutional right to
abortion health care since
this cruel and dystopian law
went into effect September
1st? I shudder to think what
is happening to them, their
dreams and their futures.
Women like me, and many of you — our
friends, sisters, daughters and nieces, who
have access to resources — will always be
able to obtain safe and legal abortion care.
We will take time off from work — if we work,
or away from school, and travel to another
state or even another country.
Under this new law, right now, as we speak,
women in Texas, with unwanted pregnancies
— and without resources — have far, far less
access to safe abortion care.
Let’s be clear: making abortion illegal does
NOT make abortion go away. It only makes it
less safe, adding signicant risk to a woman’s
health and life.
With or without resources, all of our
sovereignty is being trampled. And the fact
that some of us can afford a work-around is
unbearably unfair, sad, and infuriating.
All of which is why I was compelled to share
my story with you today. Have you ever
heard the expression, “You’re as sick as your
secrets?” You’re as sick as your secrets...
Shame festers in secrecy and binds us in
silence. I believe now is the time to change
the abortion narrative. To break the silence...
to own our choices and our rights, not just
privately, but with others.
While, as a healthcare organization, Planned
Parenthood will always protect our right
to privacy, it is our job, as supporters
of Planned Parenthood,
to address the resultant
shame, secrecy and stigma
surrounding abortion care.
We know that a 59% majority
of U.S. adults say abortion
should be legal in all or
most cases, while 39% think
abortion should be illegal
in all or most cases. We also
know that 1 in 4 American
women will have an abortion
by the age of 45. Abortion is
an integral part of women’s
health care. Yet how many of us who have
had abortions have not told our spouses,
families, friends or even physicians? Our
desire for privacy, in part, masks shame. We
are not living out loud in alignment with our
values. Many of us don’t want to talk about
it. It’s awkward! Complicated. Unpleasant.
I get it — it’s private. But I think it’s possible
that until that changes, nothing will. We will
continue to be subject to the tyranny of
the minority until more of us are willing
to make it personal and destigmatize
abortion by sharing our experiences.
My preference? Of course I would prefer
not to tell you my story — but I’ve come
to the conclusion that my preference
for privacy is part of the problem in the
national debate about abortion. My
preference for privacy can no longer
trump her rights and her sovereignty
— so that’s why I’m speaking up.
Let’s be clear: making
abortion illegal does
NOT make abortion
go away. It only makes
it less safe, adding
signicant risk to a
woman’s health and life.