PARKING
Parking is available on the premises and some street parking. The Harwelden also owns the lot on the
southwest corner of 21st and Main Street which can be used. Events of 50 or more are required to secure
valet. No parking in the adjacent private lots. You are responsible for notifying your guests of these
policies. Street parking on either side of Harwelden Mansion is permitted.
ORDINARY WEAR AND TEAR
The lessee shall be responsible for all damage not caused by ordinary wear and tear. “Ordinary wear and
tear” shall mean only normal deterioration of Harwelden Mansion (such as dirty linens and usage of the
restroom and its facilities) caused by ordinary, reasonable, and proper use of the venue and its furniture.
Damage that is not “ordinary wear and tear” includes, but is not limited to, broken dishes, improper use of
facilities, abuse of furniture, damage to wood floors, lack of cleaning, and dirtying of venue by ink, blood,
vomit, paint, mud, plaster, concrete, or any other material. The lessee will be held financially responsible
for the damages mentioned above at the sole discretion of Harwelden Mansion.
RENTALS
All rentals (linens, table settings, etc.) must come from Party Pro Rents in Tulsa. Rented items can be
stored in the kitchen or back patio for the rental company to pick up the next day.
DECORATIONS All plans for décor are subject to approval and are limited to the designated event
spaces. Nothing may be affixed to any interior or exterior surface of Harwelden Mansion without advance
approval. Decorations must be minimal and free-standing or draped. No signage or banners may be
placed on Harwelden Mansion’s grounds.
OPEN FLAME POLICY
Because of the significant fire risk to Harwelden Mansion, all decorative items must be fireproof. Any
items requiring open flame are NOT permitted within Harwelden Mansion property. LED or other
battery-powered candles are an acceptable option, so long as they do not use halogen or other high-heat
bulbs.
APPROVED GRAND EXIT ITEMS
For indoor events such as a wedding, silk flower petals may be used as decoration or tossed and must be
collected in their entirety by the end of the event. No rice, confetti, birdseed, potpourri, etc., is allowed
indoors or outdoors. Approved items include, but are not limited to, lighted devices, glow sticks, silk flower
petals, noise makers, pom-poms, small hand-held flags, and cold sparklers. Glitter is never allowed,
either by itself or on décor of any kind. Real flower petals can only be used outside Harwelden Mansion
and must be picked up afterward.
PHOTOGRAPHY
Harwelden Mansion is allowed to take photos at all events. Harwelden Mansion often uses live, video,
and still photography to assist with the promotion of the venue. Copies of those photos are available by
request. Harwelden Mansion has the right to use all photos and video taken at Harwelden Mansion by
your photographer and videographer for promotional purposes. Please refer to the “Photography and
Video Policy” on our website for additional information.
ALCOHOL
Alcoholic beverages shall not be consumed by anyone under 21 years old. Harwelden Mansion allows
caterers to provide liquor for events. All drinks should be served from an uncarpeted area but consumed
anywhere. All open alcohol must be disposed of properly, and unopened alcohol must be taken from
Harwelden Mansion premises by the end of the event. Bar service must stop promptly 30 minutes before
the contracted event end time. No alcohol will be allowed to be picked up at a later date unless discussed
and agreed upon by a Mansion representative. No cash bars or shots of any kind will be allowed in the
Mansion. Only a properly trained and licensed catering bartender may serve liquor, and bar(s) must be
staffed at all times. All bartending companies must be pre-approved by Harwelden Mansion and provide a